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QUESTIONS about G R A T E F U L N E S S
A
time of questioning is a time of gestation, when new qualities come to life
in us. Pause here to read the questions others ask about the practice of grateful
living, and perhaps you'll want to leave one of your
own.
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When Pain Comes Full Circle Patricia Carlson: The pain is bursting out with full force for your attention, a vital messenger, and you can only partially keep it at bay |
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Finding Balance as a Caretaker Patricia Carlson: To refuel from time to time so that you can love your life is nowhere near selfish…it’s essential! |
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Christian Mantra for Gratefulness Patricia Carlson: Mantras give us clarity, and they also allow for a quality of questioning that awakens dormant depths in us. |
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The Round Dance Sr. Michaela Terrio: One way of looking at the interrelationship of the world's religions sees them as mirroring on earth God's own great circle dance. |
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When others don't see your marriage as you do Patricia Carlson: To wind up questioning yourself and to mediate constantly between friends and family gets exhausting after awhile! |
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Rekindling Hope When Violence Seems to Rule Patricia Carlson: Most of us do not “convert” once and for all, but rather have the experience of the Shaker hymn: “To turn, turn, will be our delight, ‘til by turning, turning we come ‘round right.” |
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Nothing Passes Except Passing Brother David: When we die, we go back to the One who is Life, because we are life from this Life. |
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How Do I Choose between Prayer Practices? Patricia Carlson: Does this practice help me connect heaven and earth, so that my bliss is well grounded and my practical life is inspired? |
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Gratefulness and Warring Religions Brother David: We need a spiritual practice that unites all members of this Earth Household. |
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A Narrow Escape Gratefulness Webteam: You can give of yourself as freely as you have been – for your entire life! – receiving. |
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Spiritual Dissonance Patricia Carlson: The risk in multiple initiations is becoming scattered; the blessing is abundance. The risk in a single initiation is becoming narrow; the blessing is focus. |
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A Contemplative Calling in Family Life Patricia Carlson: Family life finds our weaknesses and magnifies them. Where we thought we were holy and peaceful, we find ourselves impatient, angry, or despairing. If we can bring the wealth of our innermost soul to this experience, we can bring it to almost anything. |
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The Grief of Estrangement Patricia Carlson: Your sorrow may need to become a companion rather than an enemy; you may need to turn to it for the wisdom and sensitivity it can provide. |
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A Calling or a Daydream? Norman Fischer: Try to conceive of your daily tasks as part of your practice and bring your whole mind and heart to them. |
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The Challenge of Discernment Michael J. Mahoney: With patience, perseverance, and the grace of loving others, we may develop toward a higher sense of self. |
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The Way, the Truth, and the Life Patricia Carlson: Jesus himself recognized this holiness everywhere present. |
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Is Prayer Merely Wishing? Brother David: Prayer expresses the desire of our innermost depths. |
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A Small Vessel Brother David: Frugality might be an important element of learning to be grateful. |
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Prayer of Petition Sr. Michaela Terrio: Prayer implies trust that God will respond with love, even if the answer is not what we expect. |
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Following the Path Patricia Carlson: There's almost nothing more encouraging than a genuinely searching spirit. |
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Sifting through a Crisis Brother David: Faith requires a tremendous effort of the heart, to give in to the guidance which is always there. |
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Gratitude towards One's Nation Brother David: One form of gratitude is to hold our nation accountable for the constructive values humanity holds in common. |
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The Mystery of Disaster Brother David: We ought to be grateful for anything -- uncomfortable though it may be -- that makes us meet Mystery face to face. |
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The Arc of Healing Patricia Carlson: Each of our relationships has a trajectory that death doesn't destroy. |
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When Doing Less Helps More Patricia Carlson: It's so much easier when you're down and out to respond to someone's loving listening if they have no underlying agenda. |
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Gratefulness and Divorce William Young: In practicing gratefulness during this time, we do not fail to acknowledge our grief, but rather embrace it with a gentleness aimed at discovery and healing. |
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Buddhism and the Self Norman Fischer: Gratefulness seems to be at the heart of the religious experience, no matter what the tradition. |
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When Gratefulness Feels Phony Patricia Carlson: For most of us, becoming authentic takes a lifetime. |
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Finding the Heart in Disillusionment Patricia Carlson: Your grief marks a turning point in which you can clearly see reality and, rather than let life come to you, rise to meet it by building in yourself confidence, hope, and fortitude. |
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Dogged Love Patricia Carlson: People have a great desire to love and be loved, and when you prove yourself loving, you bring out the best in them. |
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The Scope of Meditation Patricia Carlson: Meditation has strong roots in all religious traditions. |
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Nature's Wisdom Zsuzsanna Budapest: Should I be concerned about my daughter's involvement with Wicca? |
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Unreliable Once Again Patricia Carlson: What about the opportunity to be creative, to try something different, and to see how the situation turns around as a result? |
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Being with the Bereaved Patricia Carlson: Your young neighbor’s death underscores the Inca prayer: “O, for how short a time you have lent us to each other.” |
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Breaking Bread Brother David: Human beings anywhere in the world will understand breaking bread together as a gesture of love and communion. |
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Genuine Dialogue Brother David: Exclusive statements of faith are always inadequate. Inter-faith dialogue teaches us to make them inclusive. |
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Spiritual Companionship Brother David: We all need to share what deeply matters to us. |
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Facing Infirmity Norman Fischer: We will know that our very infirmity has brought us to spiritual heights we never knew were possible. And we will have a great sympathy for all people -- and for everything in this world. |
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Gratefulness in Action Brother David: Again and again i have to remind myself to look beyond these grim facts to see the full picture. |
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God as Giver, Gift, and Thanksgiving Brother David: Grateful living allows us to experience that we are (by pure grace) alive with the very life of the Triune God. |
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Reincarnation and Purgatory Brother David: Both ideas express the hope that our inner growth can continue after our death. |
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Shattered Dreams Patricia Carlson: Sometimes gratitude begins with giving yourself credit for the difficulty you’re having. |
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Gratefulness as a Sign of God's Presence Patricia Carlson: The more aware we become, the more we experience the Beloved even in the midst of our mistakes and apparent “failures.” |
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Why Religions Go Wrong Brother David: The further that lava flows down a volcano, the thicker and colder it gets. You would never guess that it once shot out hot from the innards of the earth. |
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Can You Remain Grateful When You're Being Used? Patricia Carlson: If you are sacrificing some part of yourself in order to see a good cause to completion, then you will find in time that whatever you’ve lost in the process gets returned to you in good measure. |
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Staying on Earth Patricia Carlson: You've reached a threshold of limitation, and beyond that lies an abundance of caring and renewal that you actually do already sense to be near you. Otherwise, you would have given up long ago. |
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Antidote to Self-Centeredness Brother David: Grace, rightly understood, is not something added but a letting go. |
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Too Much Compromise Lama Surya Das: Everything changes, yet we can remain steadfast and find harmony and centeredness amidst it all. |
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Teaching Gratefulness Brother David: As a teacher, you can look for moments of wonder, multiply moments of wonder, to share with your students. |
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Stability within Community Brother David: Stepping back for the sake of faithfulness is, in some cases, the very condition for holding steady. |
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Christian/Buddhist Paradox Brother David: Whatever we say about God, no matter how true, falls infinitely short of the full truth. |
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Gifts from Near Death Patricia Carlson: It's as if you've wandered into a new country and want a map that shows you landmarks, pathways, and the goal of your journey. |
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Rosary Prayer as Christian Mantra Brother David: Meditating on spiritual depths transforms the heart into the beauty it contemplates. |
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Ikiru: To Live Brother David: "To have death daily before one's eyes" is a trigger to deeper awareness. |
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Gratefulness amid War Norman Fischer: You can be grateful for your own kind heart and discriminating mind, that yearns for peace and justice. |
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Utter Undeservedness Brother David: The richness of blessings you feel in your own life gives you an abundance out of which you can let healing flow. |
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Day of Awakening Brother David: The opportunity to stand up and be counted is the gift of this hour. |
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Jealousy's Good Side Brother David: What is "positive" about jealousy? Well, maybe the fact that it makes your little self so miserable that you simply have to switch over to your true Self. |
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The Treasure Within Brother David: The most brilliant gift is within us. |
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Prayer for Results Brother David: Everybody pleas for help when they’re in trouble. |
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Build Lightly Brother David: Living purely on hope, we trust God to meet our needs. |
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A New World Vision Brother David: Gratefulness counteracts fear, prevailing consumerism, and exploitation of Earth's resources. |
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Hilfe für die Depression Brother David: Dieses wird auch vergehen. |
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Grateful Self-Acceptance Patricia Carlson: You recognize loving acceptance outside yourself because it lives in you, too. |
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The Prophetic Stance Brother David: The prophet speaks out against the community but stays in the community. That is what is so difficult. |
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Gratefulness and Celibacy Brother David: If our choice to be celibate outside of marriage is truly life-affirming, we are not choosing a safety zone, but a direction in which to move and grow. |
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Practicality versus Risk Patricia Carlson: You may be surprised at how an answer becomes clear, just at the moment you need it most. |
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Dare to Let Go Brother David: We hang on to something we can reach, hoping that it promises security. |
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Job-search Rollercoaster William Young: Your very gratefulness beckons life to supply what you truly need. |
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H.A.L.T. Brother David: Taking care of immediate needs helps lift depression. |
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Financial Insecurity Patricia Carlson: In our lack we are thrown back upon the only true security we have. |
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Overcoming Fear Brother David: Those who are really alive know that they have died many times in order to become so alive. |
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Hope in the Face of Violence William Young: Precisely because there is so much horror and suffering in the world, it’s crucially important that we each sustain ourselves in hope, faith, and love. |
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Great Longing Norman Fischer: Human longing is endless, and only something equally endless can satisfy it. |
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Faith and the Sexual Misconduct Scandal Father Richard Rohr: We must both protect victims and heal sinners on both sides, an awesome task in this context. |
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Healing From Hurting Someone Patricia Carlson: Ten Boom had in her hands embroidered fabric and showed the inquirer the tangled threads on the back, saying that this pattern was similar to the way we view our lives... |
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Accepting a Loved One's Suffering Brother David: To find meaning means to receive it with a grateful heart from the very Source of life and meaning. |
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Coming To Terms With the Sorrow of Being Linda Fisher: To relieve our suffering we must learn and experience what we have never been taught: that joy and sorrow are not opposites, but inherently interdependent. |
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Practices for Depression Brother David: Don't force feelings of gratefulness (it won’t work). |
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Unexpected Grace Staff: The priceless gift of the sacred presence, when it comes, is surely a response to our knocking on the door. |
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The Challenge of Teaching Cheryl McGinnis: Lavish on yourself the same patience that you extend to your students. |
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Breaking Up Is Hard to Do Brother David: Healing comes when you see the opportunity for growth that the painful situation has provided. |
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Reconciling a Gay Identity with the Catholic Faith Linda Fisher: Gay and lesbian people of all religious traditions are demanding to be heard. More and more religious leaders are openly ministering to sexual minorities. |
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How 'Being' Peace Can Promote Peace Norman Fischer: It's not so easy to step into the teeth of controversy, but we have to do it. |
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Joyful Suffering Brother David: Sooner or later, to live means to suffer; but if you live gratefully you can through suffering become more creative and more truly yourself. |
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The Healing Power of Gratitude William Young: Our disharmonies, brought back to the magnetic pole of the heart, realign with life’s rich wholeness, which is what authentic healing is all about. |
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Step Back! Step Up! Step Out! Brother David: I must guard against the temptation to break the tension by merely lashing out in some habitual reaction. It takes discipline to wait and to respond only when I am grounded in my quiet center. |
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There Are No Evil People, Only Misguided Actions Norman Fischer: It takes time to heal, but if you don't fan the fires of hatred and misunderstanding healing does come. |
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The Things We Will Never Have Norman Fischer: nothing can be held onto. we always lose what we have. we never really get what we want. this is how it really is. it is not just our own sorrow. it is the sorrow of being itself. |
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In Gratitude for Earth's Bounty Brother David: It's not so much a question of whether foods should be genetically altered but how we arrive at those decisions. |
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The Mystical Core of Gratefulness Brother David: Giver, Gift, and Thanksgiving are one and divine. |
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The Practice of Absolute Presence Norman Fischer: ...as long as we are observing, we are still somewhat separate from our experience. |
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What Is Life's Lesson For Today? Brother David: Life seems to always give us just the right task for learning what we need to learn. |
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Living Life Moment By Moment Brother David: What happens to us in life can't be explained as punishment. |
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Trusting Life Brother David: Deep trust in life is not a feeling but a stance that you deliberately take. |
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Listening For Opportunity Brother David: Even our worst troubles are jam-packed with opportunity |
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The Unfolding of Time As a Spiritual Practice Norman Fischer: Although it may seem counter-intuitive, at least mathematically, prayer or meditation saves time! |
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